Why We Want to Disagree Before Your Hotel Opens

by Regina Hayes | Jul 26, 2026 | Founder Notes | 0 comments

Regina and Ana do not bring identical opinions to the table. Their partnership makes room for disagreement while decisions can still be changed.

A partnership between a hospitality executive and an interior designer should not produce two people saying the same thing in different language. If it does, ownership is receiving less perspective than it should. We built The House around the belief that a productive disagreement can be one of the most useful moments in a project.

Regina · The operator’s perspective

I can look at a beautiful proposal and immediately see a sequence of tasks. A tray has to reach that table. A chair has to be moved to clean beneath it. A team member has to help a guest without blocking another person. My instinct is to ask what happens when the room is full and everyone is moving at once.

That instinct can be useful, but it can also become too defensive. If every operational concern is answered by making the room more conventional, we may protect familiarity at the expense of the experience ownership wants to create. Ana pushes me to distinguish a genuine obstacle from something a team can learn to do differently.

I value that challenge. My responsibility is to make the operating implications visible, not to give habit an automatic veto. When I raise a concern, I want us to examine the actual route, task, frequency, and consequence. “Operations will hate it” is not a sufficiently precise argument.

Ana · The designer’s perspective

I can look at the same proposal and see the feeling that could disappear if a practical adjustment is made too casually. A table moved a little farther away, a different lighting height, a chair replaced with an easier specification: any of these can alter the relationship that gave the room its character.

But beauty is not a sufficiently precise argument either. If I cannot explain what a decision contributes to the person using the space, I should be willing to reconsider it. Regina asks me to follow the room beyond the moment when everything is arranged perfectly. That makes the design more demanding, and more worthwhile.

Sometimes the answer is a different material. Sometimes it is a different service approach. Sometimes it is a more careful layout that preserves the feeling while removing the friction. I want our discussions to improve the idea, rather than reduce it until neither of us has an objection.

Where our perspectives meet

We do not promise that two perspectives will eliminate every surprise. We believe they give ownership a better chance to understand the tradeoffs before they become expensive commitments. At The House, disagreement belongs beside the drawings, the budget, and the operating brief. It should be specific, respectful, and resolved into a decision someone can explain. The hotel team should not have to discover, after opening, that the designer and the operator were solving different problems.

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Written by Regina Hayes

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